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April Pulliam, Assistant Editor at Literary Titan wrote:
"Divorce Is Not a Destination is a compelling read for anyone navigating the aftermath of a breakup or divorce. Dr. Summerour’s blend of personal narrative, cultural insights, and practical advice makes it a valuable resource. This book is particularly beneficial for those who feel stigmatized by their divorce or are struggling to rebuild their self-confidence." Click for full review
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Dr. Lisa validated my decision to prioritize my wellbeing and affirmed that leaving an unhealthy marriage was necessary for rediscovering who I truly am. Other women's stories and experiences made me feel part of a supportive community, combating the isolation divorce often brings. I encourage readers to do the exercises, especially writing your own story with yourself as the heroine. This process will help you reclaim your story and embrace your inner resilience. If you're grappling with the complexities of divorce, Divorce Is Not A Destination offers a compassionate roadmap for navigating the journey with grace, A.A.C.T. in Joy! You'll find solace, inspiration, and the strength to create a life of peace and joy on the other side…as I and so many others have.
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TISH BALDEZ
Mother of Three Grown Men, Managing Partner of P31 Consulting
Dr. Lisa illustrates how family and ancestral patterns contribute to the complicated dynamics of our relationships through her own captivating storytelling. In weaving her full self into the fabric of Divorce Is Not A Destination, we find a trustworthy guide to help us navigate through the night sea journey of divorce to find joy once again.
DR. SHANNON SLOAN-SPICE
Mother, Eco-therapist, Educator, Artist, and Somalchemist
More than a guide, Divorce Is Not A Destination is a lifeline for anyone going through or working to get over a divorce or breakup. The empowering reflections encourage much needed self-awareness and personal accountability. Dr. Lisa challenges you to dispel beliefs about divorce that no longer serve you. One of the many strengths of Divorce Is Not A Destination lies in the practical tips and tools that teach you to decrease anxiety, whether it’s from anticipating difficult conversations with an ex or talking to a child about life events that also impact them. Reading about the challenges faced by teenage mothers through the decades and unconventional perspectives on biblical references to divorce resonated with me deeply.
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GWENDOLYN OGLESBY-ODOM
Mother of Two, Healthcare Executive, Board Director
Dr. Summerour writes beautifully and grippingly. I feel her compassion, empathy, and wisdom permeate my mind as I read this book. She utilizes narrative storytelling, cognitive pedagogy, and through these, imparts clarity, calm, and peace. She makes healing seem doable and indeed, she herself has demonstrated that it is.
APRIL POWELL-WILLINGTON
Mother, Deputy Attorney General, Partnership for Peace & Transformative Impact – Board of Directors Chair
Dr. Lisa’s approach to navigating divorce is how she teaches you to alchemize the experience from a death into a rebirth. She does this with such refreshing humor, honesty, and tenderness, so that by the time you are done reading, you feel like Dr. Lisa understands that the grieving heart needs a certain amount of busy work, and even focal points, to help move through it.
DR. SHANNON SLOAN-SPICE
Mother, Eco-therapist, Educator, Artist, and Somalchemist
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DINAD is a compassionate exploration of the emotional hurdles that often accompany divorce. Drawing from her own experiences with breakups and multiple divorces, Dr. Lisa Summerour shares personal stories and profound insights to guide readers through the challenges of life during and after divorce. Divorce Is Not A Destination®: A.A.C.T. In Joy!™ offers a supportive hand to anyone struggling with the aftermath of divorce, shedding light on the complexities often hidden beneath the surface. Through heartfelt narratives and practical wisdom, Dr. Summerour provides strategies for reclaiming strength, rediscovering joy, and embarking on a journey that takes you beyond resilience to post-traumatic growth. Divorce is Not a Destination®: A.A.C.T. In Joy!™ is a beacon of hope for those navigating the uncertain waters of divorce, offering solace and empowerment to readers seeking to rebuild their lives by tapping into their birthright of joy.
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April Pulliam - Assistant Editor, Litary Titan - Full Review
In Divorce Is Not a Destination, Dr. Lisa Summerour presents a heartfelt exploration of divorce, drawing from her experiences and extensive work as a breakup and divorce coach. The book aims to transform the perception of divorce from a tragic end to a pivotal point of growth and self-discovery. Through personal anecdotes, practical exercises, and insightful reflections, Summerour encourages readers to embrace accountability, align their values, communicate effectively, and trust themselves as they navigate post-divorce life.
Dr. Summerour’s writing is both engaging and deeply personal. Her ability to share her vulnerabilities and triumphs makes the book relatable and inspiring. For example, her story of moving at the age of four due to her parents' separation sets a poignant tone that many readers can empathize with. She doesn’t shy away from discussing the complexities of her multiple marriages and divorces, which adds a layer of authenticity to her guidance. The way she reframes these experiences, particularly through the concept of accountability, is empowering and refreshing.
One fantastic aspect of the book is the practical advice interwoven with personal stories. The chapters on creating alignment and clear communication were particularly impactful for me. Summerour’s emphasis on aligning one’s actions with personal values and her candid discussion on the importance of self-trust provide concrete steps for readers to follow.
The inclusion of cultural perspectives on marriage and divorce, such as the Mosuo’s walking marriage and Mauritanian divorce celebrations, offers a broader context that challenges traditional Western views. This enriches the reader’s understanding and fosters a more inclusive dialogue on what it means to be in a relationship and what it means to end one.
Divorce Is Not a Destination is a compelling read for anyone navigating the aftermath of a breakup or divorce. Dr. Summerour’s blend of personal narrative, cultural insights, and practical advice makes it a valuable resource. This book is particularly beneficial for those who feel stigmatized by their divorce or are struggling to rebuild their self-confidence.
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Meet Dr. Lisa Summerour
Breakup & Divorce Coach
I was my own first client. That didn't keep me from experiencing success in many forms. I've had the privilege of acting alongside industry legends like Forrest Whitaker and Denzel Washington. I've earned multiple degrees, explored the world, and lived through personal and professional adventures that most people
only dream about.
While those who knew me might have envied the life I was living, few were aware of the challenges and traumas I experienced along the way. I had my share of difficult breakups. I also experienced the emotional stress and social embarrassment of more than one marriage and divorce. And throughout it all, I worked hard to navigate the highs and lows, often believing I was
concealing my pain.
After years of self-help and internal work, I found a path to overcoming heartache, rebuilding my confidence, and living a life of joy. People noticed, and some friends and colleagues asked, “How did you do it?” Eventually, I decided to organize what I’ve done into a program for women navigating the aftermath of a difficult breakup or divorce. I created what I wished I’d had decades before: an organized, guided process that includes support, community, and confidentiality.
After earning four degrees and running my own business as a personal and executive coach and consultant, I went back to school. It was important that I acquire additional skills that went deeper than breakups and divorces. My accreditations are from The International Divorce Coach Centre of Excellence and The Dash Charity. The Dash Charity has provided support to individuals experiencing domestic abuse for more than 45 years. As a Master Practitioner, I’ve been trained to work with clients divorcing difficult partners and those who need support recovering from toxic relationships.
You don’t have to figure it out alone like I did. And it doesn’t have to take you as long as you think to heal from heartache, rebuild your confidence, and live healthier, happier, and whole.
Dr. Summerour has a doctorate degree in Leadership from Olivet Nazarene University, a Master’s degree in Christian Studies from Grand Canyon University, a Master’s degree in Business Management from Indiana Wesleyan University, and a bachelor's degree in Sociology from Thomas Edison State University. She is a successful author, a certified assessor of the Intercultural Conflict Style Inventory (ICS), a personal and professional coach, a certified IDI Administrator, and a certified Equitable Leader Assessment administrator. She is an avid DIYer, and seamstress, and she loves to travel.
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